The actual age of marriage over the life life life even after death. But unfortunately no one any university that focuses on the happenings of this marriage. So many divorce, juvenile delinquency and rampant social phenomena, and did not encounter a dead end solution.
Usually people who had had enough stock material directly mating. Many felt quite capable of dealing with all the problems caused by marriage and the marriage although still raw or vacant stock. Not mentally ready, not a matter of life and not about age. Young age may be more mature. Then kawinlah or thus they married.
Try to think, so doctors just hard, hard and hard to get in college, after graduation practice too hard and difficult to face the patient. That's to be a husband and wife is more difficult than it was to be a doctor, there must be at least university or special pre-marital counseling is inadequate. So that couples who later became husband and wife or friend can live through this life with a calm, strong, despite facing many problems in facing the trials of life come though tsunami household.
Tips to find a mate for a mate
Looking for a soul mate is easy bother. Difficult indeed difficult, and really hard. But still in the end with an easy person to get a mate and continue their marriage. In searching for a soul mate is actually simple but difficult to implement tips: do not want us perfect candidates while we do not improve the quality of identity or ourselves. Personal qualities we = potential partner that we can be. Improve yourself as possible, trying to find a mate and let come to us.
Secret of eternal marriage so
In marriage, there is no such thing as impossible bicker or quarrel. But when the fight never mind. Preferably out of the house. Be Cool. Think about it, grateful for favors spouses with us. Try practicing split-split or stay-do not leave together every day, because there will be bored and weary. If we split up then occasionally he will feel the need for us, and we were together. Before actually split that would be more painful as divorce is inevitable and can not go back again. Usually, after returning a few days, weeks or months, we would like newlyweds again. Unfortunately not as emotional moment terkorban household and the kids when I have kids. Moreover, our spouses say pretty / handsome and living can be met even less frequent. Grateful.
Gratitude to god cultivate patienceMost people who divorce with her partner is because (1) it fails in grateful attendance legitimate partner, (2) Disturbance third person, either from the family or there are tempting, and (3) are less satisfied sexually. In anticipation of divorce, cultivate gratitude to god within each. Instead of the husband or wife only as a complementary status, but more than that he is our soul mate who will live together until death even after death. If it is compact and faithful, whatever ganggung may be faced with steady. In terms of sex, enjoy the better even if there are flaws, give verily cooperation with heart.
Not physical sizeDo not have the physical as size, even though the physical became the first glance. But not a guarantee though very pretty or perky'll be happy. He received the weakness despite shortcomings, if only less manly or less pretty, do permasalahkan, even though physical disabilities. After all, many happy couples with a partner which although flawed, even since the beginning of the marriage anymore. If defective after marriage because of an accident for example not disputed. If the usual drawbacks such as different appetite, less sexy, so lagilah katalah not be overstated. During the principal and not really threaten marriage, keep.
Do not feel self-righteousAmong the most trigger divorce is not because of physical weakness or deficiency, often because they feel self-righteous. Was wrong, Erasa right again. It is best to plead guilty, although not wrong. But it was hard, at least not when the silent blame. Acknowledge our shortcomings and weaknesses humbly. Try strive together to fix it together. Even if it says impotence or sterility will not be a problem though. If we are willing to accept with open heart and find solutions together.
Fact, even if the wife as beautiful as any husband would be able to leave and get instead though she wrote it ugly face and appearance of the village education even lower. But it brings happiness and lasting marriage. While quite so first. There is no problem that there is no solution. God resolver problem. Hopefully your marriage, I and we all lasting household although tsunami struck.
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